Thursday, June 2, 2011

Family letter June 2, 2011

June 2, 2011

Dear Family,

How are you?  We are doing good and so far we have not fallen victim to the food poisoning e-coli breakout here in Germany.   That is really good.  Knock on wood that we will stay okay.  

We had today off because it is Ascension Day, which is tied to their Easter Celebration and my understanding is that it is also their Father’s Day.   We have ended up staying home and not sightseeing because Marv hasn’t felt very good.  He thinks he is coming down with a cold but I am wondering if possibly it is more allergy related because there is a lot of different pollen in the air.   It is now after 4 p.m. and he has slept all afternoon.  I sure hope he will sleep tonight but I am assuming he really doesn’t feel too good. 

It is really nice just to stay home.  The weather is nice and sunny today with a nice breeze.   The temperature says it is 72°.   I have spent the day cleaning, doing wash which for some reason is taking all day today.  It must be the humidity because I am having a hard time getting the clothes to dry so I have clothes that are washed waiting for the dryer.  We have a condensation dryer, which means it does not vent outside and you have this container that holds the water from the clothes.   I have had to empty that a lot today.   I finally just took out some of the clothes and hung them up to dry and put the pants on drying racks.

Tomorrow I will be the only one in my office because everyone else is making it a long vacation.  I guess they are glad they have a missionary so they don’t have to decide who has to be in the office.   I have a feeling that the only ones that are going to be in the offices will be the missionaries tomorrow and we will see how many of those are actually there.   The kid we take into work that is doing his internship might be the only one on his floor, the executive secretary and his wife, for the Area Presidency on my floor and I will probably be the only ones on our floor.   I don’t know about the Doctors but I assume someone will be there as there are always people that are sick or needing their help somehow will be on the 3rd floor and Marv will be on the fourth floor until the Asplund’s get back in town and they might come over to the office in the afternoon.   It will be interesting to see who really is there.   There are about 5 more missionaries on Marv’s floor that could be there but all the employees seem to have scheduled the time off.  I can’t say I blame them.  

They get 28 days of vacation plus all their holidays off and unlimited sick leave.   Wouldn’t you like that?   I sure would have.   Plus the people in my area say they have a lot of comp time.  I’m not sure how they figure that because in Germany there is no such thing as comp time.   Oh well, I’m not here to figure out their working hours and tracking of it.  I just can’t figure out how you can arrive on Monday after 9 a.m. and stay to maybe 6 or possibly 7 occasionally and leave on Thursday at 3:30 p.m. and get your full 40 hours in for the week.   I guess I don’t know how to count or something.  (There’s one that does that and they eat at their desk and count that as their work time too so maybe it all adds up.)

I am starting in the process of budget preparation but it is not going well because the guy I am suppose to work with is not letting me know what he has already.   He is just planning on entering it and I’m not sure how much I am going to get to put input on because he says it should be about what it was last year but in reality it should be a lot less because they have more budget than they spend and let me tell you they spend plenty but we need to get it down to what they actually spend or at least somewhat closer.  S&I likes the budgets to be spent between 90 and 102% and I think they have typically spent around 84%.   Plus looking at their budgets they have a lot more than they should have for various accounts so I am not going to be liked very well if I do try to pull it into alignment.   I just hope that I get to have some input, if not, then why am I even here.  

This is a picture of a cemetery.   I may have already sent it but what I learned something this past week about their cemeteries  that was interesting to me.   When someone dies they lease the area for 25 to 30 years and the family has to take care of it.  Notice they plant flowers or ground cover all over the top of it.  Then after 25 or 30 years they are dug up and someone else is put there.   The headstones are ground up or something like that so apparently there are very few graves that are very old with headstones.   I’m so glad they don’t do that in the States. 

This next Wednesday for  the sister’s night out we are going to visit this huge cemetery, which is close to our office and they say it is old and so I will take some pictures.  I will notice if I see any really old headstones.   I was looking forward to seeing some. 

I was hoping to go to Flensburg probably at the end of our mission and see if any of our relatives graves were there.  They are on my Grandma Hayes’s side and I don’t have very much information going back on them but I do show a few generations in that city.   This was called Prussia at one time but is now part of Germany.   It is close to the Denmark border.   But it appears I’m not going to see any old headstones. Emiliya showed me some pictures of old headstones from her country so they must not do the same over there.
 
We went to a going away dinner for six couples last night at a Chinese or Thai restaurant in Friedburg about 30 minutes away.   It was pretty good but we aren’t sure we are going back.  It cost Marv and I about $50 US dollars just for the buffet and a drink.   Neither one of us ate that much at the buffet to make it worth the cost.  Oh well, it was another experience.

I received my general conference issue finally this week but it was the Liahona instead of the Ensign.   I e-mailed and asked that they make sure I get the Ensign from here on.   It is nice to reread the talks and be reminded of all that I heard during conference.  It will take me a while to get through it.

We have been invited for a real German meal on Sunday after church to one of the guys that I work with.   They are a couple that have never been able to have children and they have tried adoption and foster care but nothing is working out for them.  He is 41 years old and I think his wife is a couple of years younger than him.   I think he would have made a great dad because he is really kind.   He is very tall and quite big.  He has to duck to get through the doors. 

He wants to take us to a town that is known for their flowers (actually we would be taking him because they don’t have a car) and I am worried how he is going to fit in our little car for a couple hour trip.  We took him to the grocery store in our car once and the seat had to be clear back and he still was pretty cramped.   I don’t know if it will be me or his wife that needs to sit behind him because I don’t think there will be room for either one of us behind him.    It should be interesting.   He has been really kind to me and to Marv.   He is a secretary in my office but has put in an application to be on  the computer support team.   I hope he gets it because it will be a raise for him and he is really pretty good with the computer.  I would miss him in the office but we aren’t going to be here forever and he needs to do what is best for he and his family.

Marv is working on making arrangements for us to visit a Center for Young Adults and do some training with the people in Budapest, Hungary and so we will probably be going there in a few weeks over a weekend.   I understand the town is wonderful and a must see but I don’t know how much time we are going to have to see things.  Hopefully a little bit of time so we could take a tour or something.   It is a little scary to go there but I guess we will figure it out.  It appears any traveling we do will be with Marv’s assignment.  We are suppose to go with the Asplund’s the first week in August to a YSA Conference in Munich.   I think that will be a fun thing to do because we won’t be alone and we will be able to see the young people and mingle with them.  Sometimes I am envious of those couples that get to work in the Centers with the young people.  I know they have their challenges but I think you would see good things happen and could really make a difference in lives.  They typically go to the Centers two days a week and I don’t know what they do the rest of the week.  We work 5 days a week and get Saturdays off unless we travel to do some training and then that is usually on a weekend when they want us to go so then we get no time off.  But visiting the Centers would be a fun thing to do.

The church bells are ringing.  We hear them every day and I think it is kind of cool.  There are lots of things I like about being here.   It really is a great experience and a learning one for us.

These are some markers in our town as a memorial to the Jews. 

The next two are in the sidewalks and they are probably about 5X5.  You kind of have to be looking for them.  There is one that says,

“Here lived Karoline Schiff born 1874, Deported 1942, to Theresienstadt
Murdered March 10, 1943.

Amother one says:  Here lived Simon Changer Born 1858, Victim of the pogrom, TOT Dec 2, 1938. 

The second one says, Here lived Betty Charger of building Nachmann, Born 1862, Deported 1942, Theresienstadt, TOT Sept. 15, 1942

HISTORY OF THERESIENSTADT
On June 10, 1940, the Gestapo took control of Terezín and set up the prison in the Small Fortress (kleine Festung), see below. By November 24, 1941, the Main Fortress (große Festung, i.e. the walled town of Theresienstadt) was turned into a ghetto.[1] To outsiders, it was presented by the Nazis as a model Jewish settlement, but in reality it was a concentration camp 'where over 33 000 inmates died as a result of hunger, sickness, or the sadistic treatment meted out by their captors'.[2] Theresienstadt was also used as a transit camp for European Jews en route to Auschwitz. 'Although some survivors claim the population reached 75,000, official records place the highest figure on September 18, 1942, at 58,491 in Kasernes (barracks) designed to accommodate 7000 combat troups.'[3]
Dr. Siegfried Seidl, an SS-Hauptsturmführer,[4] served as the first camp commandant in 1941. Seidl oversaw the labor of 342 Jewish artisans and carpenters, known as the Aufbaukommando, who converted the fortress into a concentration camp. Although the Aufbaukommando were promised that they and their families would be spared transport, eventually all were transported to Auschwitz-Birkenau in September 1944[5] for Sonderbehandlung, or "special treatment", i.e. immediate gassing of all upon arrival. Seidl himself was hanged for his crimes by a post-war tribunal in Vienna in 1946.[6]
As in other European ghettos, a Jewish Council nominally governed the ghetto. In Theresienstadt this was known as the "Cultural Council" and eventually known by the residents as the "Jewish self-government of Theresienstadt".[7] The first of the Jewish Elders of Theresienstadt was Jakob Edelstein, a Polish-born Zionist and former head of the Prague Jewish community. In 1943, he was deported to Auschwitz, where he was shot to death after watching his wife and son being shot to death also.[8] The second was Paul Eppstein, a sociologist originally from Mannheim, Germany. Earlier, Eppstein was the speaker of the Reichsvereinigung der Juden in Deutschland, the central organization of Jews in Nazi Germany. In the course of the liquidation transports in autumn 1944, when some two thirds of the ghetto population were deported to Auschwitz, Eppstein was allegedly shot in the Small Fortress.[citation needed] He died on Yom Kippur, the holiest day in the Hebrew calendar, after he informed the deported people of what was awaiting them in the "East". Benjamin Murmelstein, a Lvov-born Vienna Rabbi, succeeded Eppstein. In the last days of the ghetto's existence, eminent and much-loved Rabbi Leo Baeck served as the Elder. In 1943 to 1945, he was the speaker of the Council of Elders of Theresienstadt, after being deported from Berlin, where he had served as the head of the Reichsvereinigung der Juden in Deutschland. He was to survive Theresienstadt and emigrated to London after the war. [9]

Many of the 80,000 Czech Jews who died in the Holocaust died in Theresienstadt, where the conditions were extremely difficult. In a space previously inhabited by 7,000 Czechs, now over 50,000 Jews were gathered. Food was scarce and in 1942 almost 16,000 people died, including Esther Adolphine (a sister of Sigmund Freud), who died on September 29, 1942; Friedrich Münzer (a German classicist), who died on October 20, 1942. Medicine and tobacco were strictly prohibited; possession could be punished by hard labor or death. Single men and women were officially forbidden to meet, or to communicate with a Gentile without German permission, however married couple often remained together and were able to sleep in the same quarters.[7]

It soon became the "home" for a great number of Jews from occupied Czechoslovakia. The 7,000 non-Jewish Czechs living in Terezín were expelled by the Nazis in the spring of 1942. As a consequence, the Jewish community became a closed environment.

Theresienstadt supplied the German war effort with a source of Jewish slave labor. Their major contribution was the splitting of mica mined from local Czechoslovakia. Blind prisoners were often spared deportation by assignment to this task. Others manufactured boxes or coffins. Others sprayed military uniforms with a white dye to provide camouflage for German soldiers on the Russian front. According to ex-prisoners, Theresienstadt was also a sorting and re-distribution centre for underwear and clothing confiscated from Jews.. "from all parts of Germany, the baggage taken away from the Jews was sent to Theresienstadt, and there it was packaged, sorted-out in order to be sent out all over the country, to various cities, for the people who were bombed-out and suffered a shortage of underwear and clothing."[7]
456 Jews from Denmark were sent to Theresienstadt in 1943. These were Jews who had not escaped to Sweden before the arrival of the Nazis. Included also in the transports were some of the European Jewish children whom Danish organizations had been attempting to conceal in foster homes. The arrival of the Danes is of great significance, as the Danes insisted on the Red Cross's having access to the ghetto. This was a rare move, given that most European governments did not insist on their fellow Jewish citizens being treated according to some fundamental principles. The Danish king, Christian X, later secured the release of the Danish internees on April 15, 1945. The White Buses, in cooperation with the Danish Red Cross, collected the 413 who had survived.

Approximately 144,000 Jews were sent to Theresienstadt. Most inmates were Czech Jews. Some 40,000 originated from Germany, 15,000 from Austria, 5,000 from the Netherlands and 300 from Luxembourg. In addition to the group of approx. 500 Jews from Denmark, also Slovak and Hungarian Jews were deported to the ghetto. Some 1,600 Jewish children from Białystok, Poland, were deported to Auschwitz from Theresienstadt; none survived. About a quarter of the inmates (33,000) died in Theresienstadt, mostly because of the deadly conditions (hunger, stress, and disease, especially the typhus epidemic at the very end of war). About 88,000 were deported to Auschwitz and other extermination camps. At the end of the war, there were a mere 17,247 survivors. 15,000 children lived in the camp's children's home; only 93 survived.

Well, I guess this was your history lesson for the week.  

Well, that is about all the news I have for this week.  Just more of the same.   Hope this finds everyone doing great.  We love you.


Love,
Elder and Sister Paxton