Thursday, May 12, 2011

Family letter May 12, 2011 - Zone Conference

Thursday, May 12, 2011

Dear Family,

Sorry this is going to be another group letter.  The time is going quickly and it seems before I know it, it is Thursday night and I need to get a letter into the mail tomorrow at work.   As you have probably heard we are getting quite warm over here.  I think it was in the 90’s today, at least that is what someone said.  Right now at 8:00 p.m. it is 69 and I am so grateful for a little breeze.  That is one thing I really haven’t noticed in the past is any real wind.  It is a very beautiful day but a little hot in our offices so it is nice to be home with the windows open and a breeze blowing.

By the time you get this you will probably already have heard but today we got some good news.   We have been wondering what we should do about our apartment in that whether or not we should move to a less expensive place because they raised our rent and it appeared to be costing us about 300 US dollars more than some of the other less nice places.   We had just decided to wait a little longer to see if paying the extra was going to be a real problem.   Well today we were called into Brother Worthlin’s Office, son of Elder Worthlin, who is the DTA for the Europe Area.  Brad Barlow the Church’s controller over Finances in the Europe Area was also there.  We had a great visit and then he told us they were making all the rents the same no matter where people lived.   So he said our rent would be 1037.50 Eur which included the car cost.   We were ecstatic because that will save us almost 200 US dollars a month just on the cost of the apartment and we don’t need to move and we have one of the nicest apartments in the area, we are told.   Everyone no matter if they are in a one or two bedroom apartment will pay the same.  Those that are paying less now will continue to pay less until they are done with their missions and those that are paying more will start paying less.   It is great for us.   Those that are coming into the mission will pay the 925 Eur for their apartment and if they are allowed a car they will pay an additional 112 Eur for their cars.

I think we were truly blessed.   I look at it as one of the little tender mercies of the Lord again to us.   He just seems to be taking care of us and so I hope that we can do what he expects us to do.  At least now I don’t have to worry about the expenses and if and when anyone comes, we will have a hideaway bed and a twin bed for people to sleep in or even floor space.  

Last night I was so hot that I had turned on the fan we have in our apartment to help cool things down and then Marv turned it off when we went to bed.   I got really hot last night and thought there is no way I am going to handle the summer heat.   I walked into the livingroom to open a window and the heater was on and it was really hot, the heaters were on in every room so I turned them off – no wonder it was HOT!   Our heaters haven’t worked very good and last night we didn’t have any hot water but they must have fixed that problem and when they fixed it, it must have fixed the heaters too.   Needless to say, I have turned the heaters totally off.

We had our first Zone Conference yesterday and so we didn’t go to work (well we did go afterwards and pick up some work to bring home).   It was really good.  We had one of the Area Presidency and his wife talk and a few of the missionaries also talked.   Sister Teixera (Area Presidencies wife) talked about our setting apart to be a missionary and what that meant.   I really needed to be reminded of that and she reminded us that we were here at this precise time doing our unique callings at this exact time because Heavenly Father needed and wanted each of us to do this.  She reminded us that just because we have office jobs does not mean we aren’t on a mission that will further the Lord’s work.   She taught us a formula that is said is (worthiness + prayer)*authority = special power.   She taught us we need to learn to love the people we work with.   (Good advice)

Elder Teixera (spelling is wrong I am sure)  Taught us that we need to first convert ourselves and to remember that there is a purpose behind every calling we receive.  We create a desire in others to follow Christ by what we do.  He reminded us that people are watching us.   He tried to teach us that
1. We must prepare spiritually because he said the Lord is mindful of the things ahead of us.  What we do and how we do it is vital.  We need to study the scriptures to help us get the spiritual strength we need.  
2.  Participate in councils.   Be spiritually prepared when going to this council because the Lord can help give us answers and solutions.   I set up some appointments with Christian so we will start counseling together on the financial issues.  
3.  Administer unto others.  He told us to find people we can administer to.  He said it might just be our husband or wife or another missionary or an employee we work with but there is someone that needs us to show love and caring toward them.  He reminded us that it is the small things we can do that will make a difference.   He said our leadership has the power to transform the entire organization that we work with.  

He also told us that Leadership is about telling ourselves what we need to do to become like Christ not telling others what to do.   I am trying hard to put this into practice.

It seems that we have been really busy lately.   I can’t believe how fast the weather is changing because now the breeze is getting cold and it feels like it is going to rain.  My plants I planted are doing really good.  I don’t think my petunias back home ever look as good as they look here.   It usually takes until fall to get them looking so good.  Here are some pictures of my flowers.
I don’t know what we are going to do this weekend.  Maybe we will find some place to go.  We haven’t done any tripping around in the past couple of weeks. 

Marv is getting really busy with his finances now.   He needs to start working on the budgets for the CFYA.  He just got a payment request from one of the trainers that had a stack of pages and his expenses were around 5000 Euros and Marv is realizing that there needs to be some training and instructions on what they can charge because this guy has had a great time spending the money but how do you not reimburse him?   I told him that he needs to get with Brad and find out what the Church’s policy is regarding travel and meals.  I know what S&I policies are and I see a lot of people who abuse that policy too.

Well, I’m sorry this is a short letter this time but I don’t know what I should write and I am really tired. +   I guess tomorrow after work we will go to the store to pick up some groceries.   That seems to be our big out.   Boring but that’s what we seem to do the best.   I have noticed since we came over that I didn’t bring very many things that are cool to wear in the spring and summer.   I just might have to break down and try to find some new clothes for the spring and summer.   Maybe I can talk Marv into taking me this weekend.   We all know how much he loves shopping but he is usually fairly patient with me.  

Well, take care and know that we love all of you and miss doing things with you but that the Lord has helped us enjoy being here together and we haven’t had to time to get homesick yet thanks to SKYPE and the phone, e-mail and letters.  We truly are blessed.   May you all be happy and continue praying for us and each other.  We can feel your prayers and we are always praying for all of you too.

Love ya,

Mom and Dad, Grandpa and Grandma Vickie, Marv and Vickie  

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