Friday, March 18, 2011

Letter to Quayde, the young man we taught in the Youth Detention


Friday, March 18, 2011

Elder and Sister Paxton
Frankfurt Mail Pouch
Church Office Building
50 East North Temple
Salt Lake City, Ut  84150

Dear Quayde,

I hope this finds you doing well.   You are so very close to getting out.   I hope that your schooling is coming together and that you will be able to graduate in May like you were planning.   Do you have new Family Home Evening Parents?   Do you like them?   Are you able to keep smiling and making the best of your time?   Do you have any new boys?   Have you played UNO recently and did you win?

Sorry this has taken so long to get to you but I can’t believe how crazy things have been for us.  It has all been good and a learning experience also.   The MTC kept us really busy from about 7:00 a.m. until about 8:30 p.m. and then we usually had reading assignments for the next day.   We learned a lot while there but we were definitely tired at night.   I (Vickie) ended up getting sick with a bad cold while there and just today, I am finally feeling much better.   I usually don’t get sick but this bug hung on for three weeks.   So far Marv is staying well and hope he stays that way.

Well, we flew out on March 5 early in the morning and made it to Dallas and after a 4 hour layover we were back on the plane heading to Frankfurt, Germany.   Both flights Marv and I were not sitting by each other so we got to talk to new people but I really would have liked to have sat by him.   The 9 ½ hour flight to Germany was not as bad as I expected except it was hard to get up and move around because the chairs were so close together and I would have to make those sitting by me get up and I didn’t want to disturb them.   We did have movies we could watch on a screen in front of our seat.  The earphones weren’t the best but when I remembered I had some, I put those in and for the last half of the flight was able to hear the movies better.   I think I was just too nervous to sleep so I didn’t.   I only had about an hour of sleep from Thursday morning until what would have been Saturday night there for you because we stayed up when we got here to try to adjust to the jet lag.   We actually did pretty good but by about 4 p.m. here each day, I would feel really tired.  But now I think we are adjusted and things are great.

Let me tell you a little about Germany.   First, the put us in an apartment temporarily that is used for visiting General Authorities and it was really nice.   After about 5 days there, we had to move because one of the couple’s  husband had a stroke and they needed our apartment because it had an elevator so they found us an apartment in a town nearby but that required us to get approval for a car to use, which they gave.   We are living in one of the nicest apartments for senior couples in the Area apparently.  It is very nice.  It has two bedrooms, 1 ½ baths, a dishwasher, microwave, washer and dryer, a TV and DVD player.   It does cost more than the others but I guess we will just pay the difference and go without something else.   It is about 15 to 20 minute drive from our office so fairly close.  This is located in a very cute town, we call it the Park City of Germany.   We understand a big portion of the millionaires live in this town and it is a town with hot mineral waters apparently.

Now the driving over here is very interesting.   You definitely have to have a GPS to get around.   There are a lot of one way streets and you can’t always go one way to get somewhere and take the same route to get back.   There are street lights all along the roads and each lane has its own light so you have to watch carefully to know if you can go in your lane or if you have to stop or turn.   The drivers are pretty nice over here.   I would say most people will use public transportation to get around instead of using their cars because it is hard to find a place to park.   The streets off the main streets are very narrow maybe wide enough for one car and then cars are parked on the side and somehow some of these streets are two way so you have to pull over and let each other by.  It can be very stressful.   I drove today for the first time just from our apartment into work and I did fine.   We drive on the autoban but it does have speed limits contrary to what people in the states have been told.   There may be sections that there are not speed limits but so far on the parts we have driven there have been limits and there are not very high limits – less than what we drive in the states.  For example, the sign may show 80 but that is really 50 miles per hour in the states.  

Food is expensive to buy in the restaurants.   We went with another couple to a restaurant the first week we were here, one they really liked and we ordered a cheeseburger and fries and a drink and it cost us 20 Euros or $30 American.   It was a good hamburger but I thought it was pretty expensive.  Also you have to buy water at restaurants, they do not serve free water and of course none of your drinks are free refills.   A drink in a restaurant is typically around $3.00 US dollars and they aren’t very big.   The food has been good.  Marv and I have actually split a meal a couple of times and it was plenty for us.   We have had lots of pizza since we have been here because that is what people have ordered to feed us.   We actually went to a Pizza Hut and it was like back home but with more variety.  We have had Croatian food, which has been my favorite restaurant so far, we had Chicken Cordon Bleu with a salad and vegetables and it was all very good.  We have had Thai, Mexican and a hot dog from a vendor.   I have bought food to cook at home and that has been fun guessing a little about what I am buying but so far we have liked most everything.

The weather was beautiful when we got here.   The sun was shining for the first two or three days and you really noticed all the spring flowers beginning to break through.   We have gone into a little cold spell the past few days and I have decided my coat is not going to be warm enough in the dead of winter so I will need to buy another one before we enter winter next year.   There are a ton of apartment buildings here and most people live in apartments because it is too expensive to own land and your home like we have.   The buildings are really close to each other.   We learned how to ride the train and go downtown.   The shopping places are huge.   I have never seen so many stores in one place.   We didn’t shop but just walked around.  

The people have been so kind to us and treated us as royalty.   We are both trying to learn our new responsibilities.   Marv is doing Finances for the Centers For Young Single Adults and I am doing the Finances for the Seminaries and Institutes in all of Europe.   Marv may have to do some traveling with his position so I am hopeful they will let me tag along.  

This Saturday we are going to Wurzburg and I believe see a castle over there with a group of people.   I will let you know what we see and how it turns out.   It will be a new experience.

Quayde, now I will give you my missionary pitch.   Please read the Book of Mormon because I know that you will find answers and peace in your life.   I would love to hear what you are reading about and how you feel.   Moroni 10:3-5 (last book in Book of Mormon) is a promise of how the Book of Mormon can bless your life.   I challenge you to read this and take the challenge to read it.   You have a couple of months before you are out and if you read a little each day you might get it read before you leave but then I encourage you to read it when you are out every day.  It will bless your life.

I best get this in the mail.   We are hoping and praying for you.   Take care and we miss our Monday nights with you but we love what we are doing and the people we are meeting.  

Sincerely,


Elder and Sister Paxton

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